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| lilac returned (aka we're back together) |
| 04.12.08 (11:22 am) [edit] |
As I went for a walk, like normal, during my lunchbreak at work, I was pleasantly shocked to see and smell a blossoming lilac! It was totally unexpected, yet welcome (seeing as it ties for my favorite flower). This was not unlike last Friday, when I was at my desk at work, doing the normal workday tasks, when a penitent (flower-bearing) Dave shows up. I need time to process what this means and what I want, so we meet to talk over lunch. Suffice to say that we're giving it another try & this is like a restart & new beginnings are welcome.
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posted by: squirrelzone (reply)
post date: 04.12.08 (8:32 am)
Lilacs and romance are a beautiful thing.
posted by: Barnabus1 (reply)
post date: 04.12.08 (3:36 pm)
Hope it works out for you, but if it don't...it's not the end of the world! it just means he's not the right one for you!!
posted by: stillhere (reply)
post date: 04.12.08 (5:40 pm)
Good Luck!
posted by: A (reply)
post date: 04.14.08 (8:01 am)
Your life should be on TV, E. :) So much drama!
Glad you're back together. Contrary to what many believe, though, I disagree with the notion that if it doesn't work out, that automatically means he/she's not the right one. I think it could just as easily mean that the two people involved didn't try hard enough and maybe missed a chance at something greater than most people ever find. On the other hand, the best you can do is try your best, and if that's not enough to build something strong and meaningful and nourishing, then that probably does mean it's not the right match. So if it ultimately doesn't work out but you did all you could, you can be at peace -- you loved and lost, but in the losing you know you didn't lose more than you could afford. But if it doesn't work out and you didn't do all you could, then you'll never really know and could spend years wondering what might have been. So it is best to risk your heart when you perceive there could be something there beyond the mundane, even if you end up losing in the end, because the risking and losing is ultimately better than the not risking and losing.
posted by: SparklingSnow (reply)
post date: 05.17.08 (5:06 am)
Reply to: squirrelzone
and it is great that romance is not limited to the flowering-time of lilacs.
posted by: SparklingSnow (reply)
post date: 05.17.08 (5:12 am)
Reply to: Barnabus1
good point! I definitely do not want to force something that isn't suppose to work. and I do believe there is a right one.